Thank you for taking the time and the courage to fill out the Play Party Application.

At this time, your application wasn't accepted.

This video explains the most common reasons why an application doesn't get accepted, plus some tips to consider for when you'd reapply.

Need Help Reapplying? Scroll Down!

In case you don't get a chance to watch the video... 
Here are the common reasons an application doesn't get accepted:

Common Reason 1 — If you're not 21 years old or older, you won't be accepted. This is for legal reasons. We encourage you to geek out on The Intimacy Dojo PG13 events until you are 21, and then apply again!

Common Reason 2 — If you haven't been to an Official Cuddle Party, you will automatically be declined. We require attendance to at least one Cuddle Party so everyone understands consent and has a common language. There are many Official Cuddle Parties in the Bay area. You can find our next one posted here:
https://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/meetup
(NOTE: In meetup, click on SEE ALL to see a complete listing of events.)

Common Reason 3 — If your answer about consent and what to say if you hear a no wasn't respectful, your application would be rejected. You can learn more about Consent at some of these sites:
CuddleParty.com
ReidAboutSex.com/consent

If there were other specific reasons, we will email you directly and probably offer suggestions.

Thank you for your curiosity, courage, and interest! We hope this email and the video encourages you to reapply!

Need help reapplying?

If you aren't old enough to attend yet, but are 18 years old or older, while you wait for your birthday(s)... Watch the Jump Start Program!

Waiting to attend a Cuddle Party so you qualify? Jump into the Jump Start Program and be giant steps ahead of other folks there!

Trouble with the consent questions? The Jump Start Program has lots of role modeling and discussion on how to respond!

Feel More Confident at Your Next Play Party...

Learn from our mistakes so YOU don't have to make them! Let those who've gone before you tell you what to watch out for... Be ready before it happens! Learn what NOT to do, first hand, from the experts!

Understand how to avoid awkward approaches and make others feel more comfortable...  You can make your next play party lots more comfortable and enjoyable!

Going to a Play Party is a lot like going to a foreign country for many people. Be patient and learn all you can so you can avoid stepping on toes or making yourself and others feel uncomfortable!

If you want to dive in deeper, then Play Party Jump Start... Where Play Party experts share their best practices, explained where they've gone wrong, and offer their best skills in bite-sized videos... Is for YOU! 

I've interviewed people who went from shy and fearful to running their own events, and they generously shared what worked, what didn't, and what to avoid!

This Play Party Jump Start program is usually $197... Because we value what you're working so hard for, we're giving you a special Take Action Price of $97 today!

Click the link now and get a step by step guide through:

- How to Win at a Play Party!
- Getting ready to go to a play party, to avoid hours of anxiety!
- What to wear to rock the party and not hate yourself halfway through!
- Talking to a spouse or partner about going to a Play Party.
- Safer Sex at a Play Party in a much less awkward way!
- What to bring with you, to add to the party.
- How to ask for what you want!
- How to say no to things you don't want to do.
- Mistakes to avoid so you can focus on fun!

We answer challenging questions, and share what not to do!